EXITS AND ENTRANCES
Jul. 16th, 2019 06:52 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
killtocuretokillPeople are going to come in and out of your life when you least expect it. Strangers, enemies, heroes, best friends, and worst friends. Very rarely do you have control on when they decide to check in and check out. Enjoy the ride, try not to hurt anyone, and don't keep anyone from their own adventures. You reap what you sow. People are always going to people. Respect the time you have with each other.
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Date: 2019-07-17 03:50 pm (UTC)I hope you are doing well, friend. It's been a while. Are you recovering well?
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Date: 2019-07-17 04:43 pm (UTC)While some of this is hereditary a lot of it just exacerbated by bad choices just about everyone in the universe has warned me about one time or another. And it’s not say my excuse of ‘ well I didn’t meaaaaan to do this or not’ isn’t valid either. I just get distracted by all the cogs and levers (everything else I like to do) I wanna play with all the time to distance my self from reality. Sometimes I forget this flesh cage I inhabit should be the more important vehicle I need to focus on. We don’t quite have any other options yet. More or less this post was an amalgamation of friends coming and going because of work, school, life, personal situations, cost of living, or very real health problems.
I’m also trying to be supportive and not distancing myself from friends who are having a real serious and potentially mortally final thing happening. His wife has cancer I don’t know many people who come back from a stage 4 cancer diagnosis. I’m trying to stay positive as a friend but there’s been a consistent sense of dread as well. And it’s beyond my comprehension how they do it.
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Date: 2019-07-19 01:25 pm (UTC)I too need to be better about my health. Since my back started being fucking stupid I have been so fucking negligent. Obviously my situation is not comparable, but my point is that, even for a person who used to be very good about staying active and eating well, life can creep up on you in the most bullshit ways and prevent you from caring for yourself. Being a human being is fucking hard sometimes.
Proud of you, my dude!
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Date: 2019-07-20 03:25 am (UTC)https://www.gofundme.com/f/GirlfriendInAStoma
Obviously no obligation or pressure to donate but they keep a blog/update on her condition and cancer therapy.
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Date: 2019-07-23 04:23 pm (UTC)